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How to Kiss a Guy the First Time Around
Submitted by fabgirl20
First kisses like the first of many other big moments are very memorable. After dating a guy for a short while, you both will start to connect on a another level. At this point one of the dominant thoughts in your heads is kissing each other for the first time. From a female's perspective, there's a huge amount of anxiety built up that needs to be released. You've fantasized and rehearsed the moment in your head over and over. You ask yourself I hope he's a good kisser, I hope I don't mess it up on my part.
Well kissing a guy for the first time is not a technical thing. It's important to remember men are more driven and motivated by physical gestures and visual appeal, while you the female is more directed by your emotions. In most cases you must be ready to let go of any walls you have up and allow him to take control and make the first move towards your first kiss. He has a lot more to lose if he messes this up than you do, so it's generally good advice to put yourself in the position to get it just right.
When kissing him for the first time, expect certain things to happen. He will typically look you in the eye very affectionately and either hold your hands very closely or stroke your cheek gently. Make sure your head is slightly leaned to one direction as his is leaned to the other direction. If you are truly interested in kissing him, relax and let go of your tensions, then give him the signal to take a kiss on your lips by very slowly moving in to make contact with his lips. The first kiss will last anywhere from 5 seconds to one minute, it all depend on the comfort level you have with the guy.
Remember, although the moment has been played out in your head before, a first kiss with any new guy is a unique experience and should happen when the moment and setting are right. Kissing a guy for the first time in a crowded area would not be the most ideal situation. This should be a private moment, most likely on a romantic date, (i.e. movie, restaurant, picnic, beach)
Follow these tips, and wait for the right moment, then you will have a very successful and romantic first kiss. The kiss you've been fantasizing about since you first met the guy.
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Amen to that sister. Nobody needs to be swallowing a cup of spit the first time they kiss you. Even tongue is questionable on the first kiss. From either guy or girl. The first impression will be ruined and so will the kiss if you're slobbering all over a guy's mouth. It's gross and out right just plain bad kissing. This reminds me of that scene in Scary Movie where Anna Faris is french kissing that really wrinkled old lady and leaves a trail of spit for us to watch. That was gross but funny.